The Desiderata of Happiness
by Max Erhmann
Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace
there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and
clearly, and listen to others, even the dull & ignorant; they
too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they
are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter, for always there will be greater
and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well
as your plans, keep interested in your career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise
caution in your business affairs, the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons
strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical
about love, for in the face of all aridity & disenchantment
it is perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength
of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress
yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness;
beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the
stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear
to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore,
be at peace with God, whatever you conceive him to be, and whatever
your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep
peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be careful, strive to be happy.
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